In our work around imposter syndrome, we often say:

Yes, you can rewire your confidence.

Yes, you can relearn how to show up.

But there’s a step people don’t expect:

Check yourself.

Because sometimes, we jump straight to:

“This is unwarranted.”  
“I’m amazing.”  
“I don’t deserve to feel this way.”

And we miss the question:

Where is the learning in this experience?

Is there something you could have done differently?

Could you have prepared more?
Was there a question that caught you off guard?
Was there a gap you didn’t see?

This is not about belittling yourself.

It’s about taking accountability.


To explore this idea of accountability and growth more deeply, tune into The UnLearners Podcast episode: “Check Yourself – You’re not always right.”